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isPermaLink="false">http://howdidithappen.org/?p=782</guid><description><![CDATA[Hello Friends, It&#8217;s been a while since I&#8217;ve posted on this blog—more than two years. But recently—out of the blue—I received an email from the Rigpa U.S. Board directing me to Rigpa&#8217;s Renewed Apology (dated October 15, 2021) on the Rigpa International website. I don&#8217;t trust the new apology and felt compelled to respond. If [&#8230;]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[
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rel="noreferrer noopener" href="https://unsplash.com/@kmw152?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText" target="_blank">Kate Williams</a> on <a
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href="https://www.rigpa.org/posts-rigpa-news/rigpas-renewed-apology">Rigpa&#8217;s Renewed Apology</a> (dated October 15, 2021) on the Rigpa International website.</p><p>I don&#8217;t trust the new apology and felt compelled to respond.  If you&#8217;d like to read my response, you&#8217;ll find it here:</p><p><a
href="https://sandrapawula.medium.com/never-accept-an-incomplete-or-inauthentic-apology-82cbaeae29a3?sk=f6bdbfbaf59473ba238a8e83f4ad8676">Never Accept an Incomplete or Inauthentic Apology</a></p><p>In this article, I describe what constitutes a &#8220;true apology.&#8221;  I then go on to enumerate the ways in which I find Rigpa&#8217;s Renewed Apology lacking.</p><p>I hope you find it helpful or illuminating in some way.</p><p>With best wishes, Sandra</p><p></p><p><br></p> ]]></content:encoded> <post-id
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